Friday, June 25, 2010

Party Girl

Queen,
My girlfriend went home to visit her family for a week. She, basically partied every night with her friends. She parties alot with her little sister, and all her friends. So if she is out until 4 or 5 am, I get the excuse that she is with her family. but it's more like her sister and a slew full of guys. Anyway my issue is that she didn't even wan't to come home. So much that she extended her stay an extra night. And the day she was coming home she was texting me: "I wish I could stay :( "

I'm so flustered, I don't even know what to think anymore. Her side is that she does not get to see her family and friends and misses them very much. But it's not exactly a "Brady Bunch" family visit. Because she just parties everynight there. I fully understand she misses her family and wan't to give her space. But shouldn't she be excited to come home? Also her job requires her to be working on the road alot, probably 10 to 15 days per month, where she also likes to party late at night with her regular crew of friends that work with her. She went to Dublin Ireland for 3 weeks, and would call me every night. One night she didn't call me until like midnight my time and it was 6 am there. She said she was chasing her girlfriend all night cause she was super drunk.

I do have some issues with woman, based on past relationships. And I realize that I probably shouldn't have gotten into one until I worked out these problems, but it is too late, and we are in love. I can't get over the fact, of a past relationship with someone. Who says they love you everyday, you tell eachother about your deepest intimate emotions, to later find out that they have been fucking behind your back the whole time. (My so called friend who I put on my couch, called and told me after he moved away) so that's how I found out.

She is always asking me to marry her? Which is confusing to me, as her life of partying does not seem to fit this criteria. And before she left we found out she was pregnant, but decided she did not want it. I did but I know I can't force her, as it is a dual decision. But she just went and partied it up.

This is quite a messed up situation, I don't know if anyone has been there, or has any advice for me to say to her. Because she always seem to come up with a likely story, and turns it around on me. Which makes me feel like I am wrong. I dunno, maybe I am.

7 comments:

  1. Dude, get a grip.
    It really sounds like you two are in love, as she can't wait to get away from you, and you don't trust a thing she says/does.
    Heads up-she tells you she wants to get married so she can keep on playing, using, and manipulating you.
    Your relationship is a lost cause, end it now or keep beating a dead horse, your decision.

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  2. This is the best fucking advise you can get, do exactly as this guy says or she will break your
    heart and you will quickly be a reputed pussy!! I'm NOT joking. DO IT!

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  3. I wonder how old she is because if she is 25 or younger then you would expect this, but of she is older then that I would say you should move on!

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  4. One day you WILL find a relationship that is right for you. Many times it's easy to hang onto someone because we don't want to be alone.

    You need to sit down for a long talk to find out what you both want.

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  5. My boyfriend was like that. Then I found out he cheated on me.

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  6. Trust your gut.
    It will make you sick, but it may also set you free.
    Enjoy loving her, and leave before you hate her too much.

    "Reason to Believe" by Rod Stewart

    If I listened long enough to you
    I'd find a way to believe that it's all true
    Knowing that you lied straight-faced while I cried
    Still I look to find a reason to believe

    Someone like you makes it hard to live without
    somebody else
    Someone like you makes it easy to give
    never think about myself

    If I gave you time to change my mind
    I'd find a way just to leave the past behind
    Knowing that you lied straight-faced while I cried
    Still I look to find a reason to believe

    If I listened long enough to you
    I'd find a way to believe that it's all true
    Knowing that you lied straight-faced while I cried
    Still I look to find a reason to believe

    Someone like you makes it hard to live without
    somebody else
    Someone like you makes it easy to give
    never think about myself

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  7. Too late dude. You're already a schmucker.

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