Tuesday, June 22, 2010
No Love For His Son... No Love For Me?
I am in love with a man that has a child that he doesn't see. He is a wonderful guy in every way. He states he doesn't see the child because the mother just wanted a baby and does not want anything to do with him now. She won't even accept money because she does not want him to have visitation rights. He has done nothing in court or otherwise to stand up for his rights. They broke up because she was very controlling. He has seen the child once but that is all. He is from the Philippines and maybe the mother thinks he might take off with the boy. He is now 18 months old. What do you think? I say how can he love me when he does this to his own child. Why wouldn't he fight to see his son? If he won't fight for his son, what makes me think he will fight for me? What kind of father will he be to my child one day? I do not know if he is worth pursuing anymore, but I love him! Any advice you have would be appreciated.