I was in a relationship with the same guy for 2 yrs. It started off just casual and then after about 8 months we decided to make it official. I let him meet my kids, interact with them, spend time with us at family gatherings, and everything in between. We even went on vacation together this spring. After coming home from a place that was warm and not reality... everything changed. He told me we should just split up, then 3 days later he said he didn't mean it. I was so hurt by that! So when he said he didn't mean it I told him I thought he was right and enough was enough, we should end it. Well 3 weeks later..... I find out I'm F-ING pregnant and so screwed. I am already a mother of 2 without any support, now this????????????? OMG anybody out there with an opinion please help, good or bad! Do I try to work things out, keep the baby, my head is going crazy, how can I trust a guy who changes his F-ING mind every 3 days????
Something happened on that vacation, and you need to figure out what it is before you decide what you are going to do, is he scared of commitment, has he shown you any signs of this? Does he know you are pregnant? That will surely scare him if he is already scared, but I think you owe it to him to talk and give it a try.
ReplyDeleteGet an abortion. Christians have a shit-fit over abortion but don't be close-minded. You are single, have 2 children already, and you have a choice. My wife and I already have 3 children and if she were to get pregnant, we'd have an abortion because we do not want another child. I'm just a guy with and opinion and there it is.
ReplyDeleteI totally disagree with Queen of the Rant. If you two broke up, going back to him to tell him your pregnant is not only "dumb" but it will not help strengthen a non-existent relationship, only tie you two together for a long time. Get an abortion and if anyone ever asks, which they will, just tell them you miscarried. It's no one else's business.
ReplyDeleteI agree w/anonymous... I'm just wondering why protection wasn't used from the beginning? Or is that a dumb question?
ReplyDeleteI am not against abortion, but I am not for it in this case, at least give the baby up for adoption if you are not going to keep it, there are so many parents that cant have babies that want them. If I was a guy and I did not know and found out, I would be really mad, so I think you owe it to him to tell him, what a touchy subject though-- thoughts???
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