My man friend (I refuse to call him my husband til he puts a ring on it) is going to a bachelor party on July 3rd. Since we have been together he has never gone to a strip club, and we are not clubbers, but if we do go it is together. I am obviously not going to the bachelor party, but I have an idea of what to expect- the worst. I have not told him that I have concerns because I do not want to seem controlling or clingy, but I cannot stop picturing strippers, lap dances and other party favors. I trust him, but not when he is drunk out of his mind (also picturing this). I am going crazy, my mind keeps wondering what will happen, and not knowing will be even worse. I don't know what to do, I don't know if I should tell him whats bothering me, or let it go and see what happens, ahhhhh.. I have never had to be concerned about this sort of thing before, I just want to scream!
He's a big boy... what are u afraid of? that he might enjoy the party and whoever is there? Give him the benefit of the doubt and if something happens that u hear about better now than later after u get committed to him..
ReplyDeleteWell heres hoping he comes home with his teeth, and no baby lol, love the picture,
ReplyDeleteI'm sure it'll be fine. Usually, it's the bachelor who gets up to trouble at those gigs.
ReplyDeleteI am afraid you are going to have to stay cool, and then if something happens you can say you told us all so... but try your best to give him the benefit of the doubt. Keep us posted!
ReplyDeleteU r overreacting
ReplyDeleteAhhh, just go out and get drunk yourself with a bunch of ladies, and meet up for breakfast the next morning... You both can exchange horror stories over bloody marys. That is exactly what I would do!
ReplyDeleteAw come on now. After the wedding and everything is over, you'll have him on a tight leash.
ReplyDeleteDon't lose any sleep over it. Next time the Chippendales are in town go see them. It's a hoot!!
ReplyDeleteI would let him know you're uncomfortable with it, but wouldn't make a big deal out of it. He need to know that you trust him, just like he should trust you. Yes, he may look, but we should all be allowed to appreciate the beauty around us. Unless, of course, he has already given you reason to mistrust him.
ReplyDeleteI trust my guy and know he will be good but its the strippers I worry about. They can see a wedding band on your guys finger and it makes no difference to them.
ReplyDeleteI'm a 47yr old guy who's been to several (about 6) bachelor parties.
ReplyDeleteYou have EVERY reason to be more than worried!
At every party I was at, the girls doubled as hookers.
It doesn't happen initially, first it "is" the party.
However, when the guys get going/get a few drinks in them,
the girls start enticing them & it's on.
It ranges from touching/grouping, oral (mutual), to full on sex.
Trust me, if your guy loves you (really loves you), he won't go.
Trust me, if your dumb, (really dumb), you'll let him go--especially
now that I've warned you.
I agree with the last post! Yes, we should trust each other, but when you know what kind of party is in question, this is not the same! I also know the striper is a hooker and bachelor arty is just an excuse to have such party...
ReplyDeleteI`d be very worried...
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ReplyDeleteHe's going out for hamburger when
ReplyDeleteHe has steak at home. You should get some extra that night too.
get over it, those striper are only there for money... they could care less for your guy or any other.
ReplyDeleteHe wont fall in love, and if they touch, you wash it will be as brand as new