My man friend (I refuse to call him my husband til he puts a ring on it) is going to a bachelor party on July 3rd. Since we have been together he has never gone to a strip club, and we are not clubbers, but if we do go it is together. I am obviously not going to the bachelor party, but I have an idea of what to expect- the worst. I have not told him that I have concerns because I do not want to seem controlling or clingy, but I cannot stop picturing strippers, lap dances and other party favors. I trust him, but not when he is drunk out of his mind (also picturing this). I am going crazy, my mind keeps wondering what will happen, and not knowing will be even worse. I don't know what to do, I don't know if I should tell him whats bothering me, or let it go and see what happens, ahhhhh.. I have never had to be concerned about this sort of thing before, I just want to scream!
