My husband has a drinking problem. He just cannot control himself. There is no such thing as one effin drink for him, and after about the third he turns into this loud obnoxious idiot. I usually just go to bed so I do not have to listen to him tell the same story about when he was 18 blah blah blah... The worst part is when he comes to bed, and I have to wake up early for work. He either wakes me up by being super loud, turning on lights, blaring his music or actually waking me up and talking to me. Sometimes he does not do anything, but if he is in a bad mood he will be rude to me, call me names, and babble on about nothing. I have told him I HATE THIS, and it will stop for a little while and he always apologizes, but then he will start up again. I have been surrounded by alcoholics my whole life, and now I have another one laying right next to me every night. It is so irritating, and I do not know what to do about it, I feel like I have tried everything, short of leaving him. I love him, but I hate his drinking, why can't he just drink like a normal effin person.