Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Can Talk the Talk

Dear Queen,
My husband is lazy!  He talks the talk, but does not walk the walk.  All I hear is how he is going to do this and that, but I never see it get done.  It is getting to the point where I just bank on the fact it wont get done, but it drives me because I keep hearing how he is going to do this and wants to do that.  Just shut up and do it already... otherwise be quiet already.


  1. My boyfriend does this all the time and it grinds my gears!

  2. Losing belief in your husband is dangerous. Tell him how this makes you feel before it gets out of control. Set an example, and if not anything else at least you got it off your chest, that way you will not take it out on him.

  3. I agree with the Queen. How about setting a contract and putting up a checklist for both of you to review weekly? If he fails to hold up his end, maybe set a "penalty", like hiring a maid service for a day (at his expense), or taking you out for dinner.
    Whatever you choose, do _not_ with the silent treatment or witholding your physical affections. Passive-aggressive behavior is toxic to a relationship.


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