Follow Up: My Boyfriends Best Friend

So if you remember I got a rant from a gal, as she fooled around with her mans best friend while they were broken up... he had a drinking problem.... well if you cannot remember click on the link and read it again...

Here is how she is doing now...

Queen,

Thank you and your followers for all of your advice.  I went with the honesty is the best policy option, and I am sad to say that we ended our relationship roughly a month after I told him.  However, the reason why I wanted to email you and let you know what happened is that it turns out everything worked out fine.  Stevie's advice was spot on-I was in a bad situation, and neither of those guys were what I really wanted.  Now I have found someone that I could truly be happy with, and we are doing great-no drinking and we do not fight.

I was scared to lose my ex since we had been together for so long, but really that was the best thing for me-perhaps that is why I chose to sleep with his friend in the first place-subconsciously I knew we would never last after that!

If it was not for you and your followers I may still be stuck, trying to lie my way through a meaningless relationship, and miss out on meeting my new man.  My ex is drinking again, and I worry that it is because of me, but I will never look back-thank-you so much for all of your help!

Yours Truly,

"Couldn't be happier"

To My Boob Job Girlfriend

To My Beautiful Mexican Girlfriend:

I hope you enjoy the new boobs, that I helped to buy for you.
I didn't know you were going to leave, especially after all I did for you.
especially after supporting you for 2 years, helping you get legal, and even helping your mom get legal.

But this is not about posting bail for your brother, loaning your niece 1400 bucks or moving your apartment 3 times.  This is about you, about us. I miss you, and I do not even know why after you left me.  Did you find something better?  Were you with someone else while we were together?  I thought we were happy, I did everything to make you happy.


I think you were just using me, I do not even know if you ever cared about me or if it was all just lies.

I have been drinking every day, I'm so depressed. Depressed knowing how much I loved you.  I have so many questions, and you have not given me any answers.  Will I ever see you again?

It's been 6 months now, I cannot snap out of it. I do not know if I ever will?

But of course you could care less.

Toxic Intoxication

Queen,

My husband has a drinking problem.  He just cannot control himself.  There is no such thing as one effin drink for him, and after about the third he turns into this loud obnoxious idiot.  I usually just go to bed so I do not have to listen to him tell the same story about when he was 18 blah blah blah...  The worst part is when he comes to bed, and I have to wake up early for work.  He either wakes me up by being super loud, turning on lights, blaring his music or actually waking me up and talking to me.  Sometimes he does not do anything, but if he is in a bad mood he will be rude to me, call me names, and babble on about nothing.  I have told him I HATE THIS, and it will stop for a little while and he always apologizes, but then he will start up again.  I have been surrounded by alcoholics my whole life, and now I have another one laying right next to me every night.  It is so irritating, and I do not know what to do about it, I feel like I have tried everything, short of leaving him.  I love him, but I hate his drinking, why can't he just drink like a normal effin person.